\u0130zmir\u2019de ya\u015fayan 49 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Song\u00fcl Ok\u00e7u ile down sendromlu ve otizmli k\u0131z\u0131 Miray Ok\u00e7u\u2019nun hayat\u0131, \u0130zmir B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi Yurdo\u011flu Engelli \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 Merkezi\u2019yle de\u011fi\u015fti. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n merkezde ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u011fitimlerle \u00f6nemli a\u015famalar kaydetti\u011fini, kendisinin de psikolojik destek al\u0131p \u00e7e\u015fitli kurslara kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Ok\u00e7u, \u201cHayat\u0131m\u0131za can geldi, renk geldi. Arkam\u0131zda da\u011f gibi durdular. Hayat\u0131m\u0131za \u0131\u015f\u0131k oldular\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u0130zmir B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi Sosyal Hizmetler Dairesi Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Engelli \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 \u015eube M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, sadece kentte ya\u015fayan engelli bireylere de\u011fil onlara en b\u00fcy\u00fck eme\u011fi veren annelerinin de hayatlar\u0131na dokunuyor. 9 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki down sendromlu ve otizmli k\u0131z\u0131 Miray Ok\u00e7u\u2019yu \u0130zmir B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi Yurdo\u011flu Engelli \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 Merkezi\u2019ne g\u00f6t\u00fcren anne Ok\u00e7u, t\u0131pk\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131 gibi kendi hayat\u0131na da renk geldi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u0130leri d\u00fczeyde bili\u015fsel, alg\u0131sal ve hareket geli\u015fimi bozuklu\u011funa sahip Miray Ok\u00e7u, \u00f6zel e\u011fitim al\u0131rken, anne Song\u00fcl Ok\u00e7u ise ayn\u0131 merkezde yoga, dans, resim gibi e\u011fitimlere kat\u0131l\u0131yor, gezilere gidiyor ve psikososyal destek al\u0131yor. Merkeze gelmeye ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n tek d\u00fcze oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen Ok\u00e7u, \u201cHayat\u0131m\u0131zda renk yoktu, \u0131\u015f\u0131k yoktu. Umutlar\u0131m\u0131z t\u00fckenmi\u015fti. Hem \u00e7ocu\u011fum hem de kendim hayattan kopmu\u015ftuk. Hayat\u0131m\u0131za can geldi, renk geldi. \u00d6zel oldu\u011fumuzu, yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 burada anlad\u0131k. Arkam\u0131zda da\u011f gibi durdular. Burada hayat\u0131m\u0131za \u0131\u015f\u0131k oldular\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u0130yi ki \u00f6zel \u00e7ocuk annesiyim diyorum\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c\u00d6zel \u00e7ocuk annesi olmak; m\u00fccadele, emek ve sab\u0131r demek. T\u00fcm anneler elbette m\u00fccadelecidir ama bizim \u00e7abam\u0131z \u00e7o\u011fu zaman iki kat fazla olmak zorunda kal\u0131yor\u201d diyen Ok\u00e7u, anneli\u011fi \u201cbeklemek\u201d kavram\u0131yla tan\u0131mlad\u0131. \u201cAnne; oca\u011f\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda, hasta \u00e7ocu\u011funun ba\u015f\u0131nda bekler. Beklemedi\u011fi tek \u015fey ise sevgidir\u201d ifadelerini kullanan Ok\u00e7u, merkezin kendilerine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z destek sundu\u011funu belirtti.<\/p>\n K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n merkeze ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda merdivenleri inip \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatan Ok\u00e7u, hareket e\u011fitimi dersleri sayesinde art\u0131k bunu ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z \u015fekilde yapabildi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyerek, \u201cBu benim i\u00e7in mucizelerden biri. Sadece engelli \u00e7ocuklara de\u011fil, bizim gibi \u00f6zel \u00e7ocuklara sahip annelere olan destekleri, anlatsam kelimelere s\u0131\u011fmaz. Buray\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra \u2018iyi ki \u00f6zel \u00e7ocuk annesiyim\u2019 diyorum. Ba\u015fkan Tugay\u2019\u0131n buras\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duydum ve ko\u015farak geldim. \u00d6zel ilgiyle kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131m. \u00d6zel bir \u00e7ocuk annesi olarak \u00f6zel bir muamele g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm tek alan buras\u0131 oldu\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n \u201cArt\u0131k \u00e7aresiz ve yaln\u0131z de\u011filiz\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Engelli \u00e7ocuk anneleri i\u00e7in toplumda empati duygusunun geli\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fini belirten Ok\u00e7u, \u201cBu kurumdan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m deste\u011fi toplumun her alan\u0131nda g\u00f6rmek isterim. Bizi anlay\u0131n, fark\u0131nda olun, birlikte olal\u0131m ve bize destek olun. Bu merkezi normal bir kurum olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyordum ama hizmet ald\u0131k\u00e7a \u2018kurum\u2019 kelimesi \u00e7ok hafif kald\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc buras\u0131 bizim i\u00e7in ev, s\u0131cak bir yuva, s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir liman oldu. Bizimle o kadar ilgililer ki \u2018\u00f6zel\u2019 kelimesi benim hayat\u0131mda sadece \u2018\u00f6zel \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan anne\u2019 olarak vard\u0131. Benim bug\u00fcne kadar hi\u00e7 \u00f6zel bir diyetisyenim olmad\u0131, \u00f6zel bir psikolo\u011fum, \u00f6zel aile dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131m olmad\u0131; ta ki buraya gelene kadar. Art\u0131k \u00e7aresiz ve yaln\u0131z de\u011filiz. Bunu iliklerime kadar hissediyordum\u201d s\u00f6zlerine yer verdi.<\/p>\n \u201cBa\u015fkan Tugay sayesinde yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissettik\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Merkezde sadece k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitim alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken, asl\u0131nda kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n da de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen Ok\u00e7u, \u201cHer alanda b\u00fct\u00fcn aktivitelerden yararlan\u0131yorum. Geziler yap\u0131yoruz; ilk kez \u00d6demi\u015f\u2019e gittim. Psikolo\u011fumuz var, diyetisyenimiz var. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendim ve 6 kilo verdim. Burada yoga yap\u0131yorum, dans e\u011fitimlerine kat\u0131l\u0131yorum, el sanatlar\u0131, resim derslerine kat\u0131l\u0131yorum. Buras\u0131 bizim nefes ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir yer. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6zel \u00e7ocuk anneleri olarak zorlan\u0131yoruz. B\u00f6yle kurumlar ve Ba\u015fkan Tugay sayesinde art\u0131k yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissettik. \u00d6zel \u00e7ocuk anneleri olarak art\u0131k g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcz, dik duruyoruz ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven sahibiyiz. Bunun mimar\u0131 olan Ba\u015fkan Tugay\u2019a y\u00fcrekten te\u015fekk\u00fcr ediyorum\u201d dedi. Ok\u00e7u, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n merkeze gelmeden \u00f6nce kendi v\u00fccuduna zarar verdi\u011fi i\u00e7in kask ve eldiven takmak zorunda olduklar\u0131n\u0131, ancak merkezde ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u011fitimlerden sonra geli\u015fme kaydetti\u011fini ve bu gibi \u00f6nlemler almamaya ba\u015flad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6zlerine ekledi.<\/p>\n Kaynak: (BYZHA) Beyaz Haber Ajans\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0130zmir\u2019de ya\u015fayan 49 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Song\u00fcl Ok\u00e7u ile down sendromlu ve otizmli k\u0131z\u0131 Miray Ok\u00e7u\u2019nun hayat\u0131, \u0130zmir B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi Yurdo\u011flu Engelli \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 Merkezi\u2019yle de\u011fi\u015fti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16233,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16232"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16232\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16234,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16232\/revisions\/16234"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16233"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}