{"id":23135,"date":"2026-07-16T19:10:14","date_gmt":"2026-07-16T19:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/2026\/07\/16\/yaslilar-konusmuyor-siddet-gorunmuyor\/"},"modified":"2026-07-16T19:10:15","modified_gmt":"2026-07-16T19:10:15","slug":"yaslilar-konusmuyor-siddet-gorunmuyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akdenizolay.com.tr\/index.php\/2026\/07\/16\/yaslilar-konusmuyor-siddet-gorunmuyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya\u015fl\u0131lar konu\u015fmuyor, \u015fiddet g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcyor!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ya\u015fl\u0131lara y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin yaln\u0131zca fiziksel sald\u0131r\u0131lardan ibaret olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Psikoloji B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Zeynep G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f Demir, psikolojik bask\u0131dan ekonomik s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcye, cinsel istismardan ihmale kadar uzanan bir\u00e7ok davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ya\u015fl\u0131 istismar\u0131 kapsam\u0131nda de\u011ferlendirilmesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fiddeti yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 korumak, bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kaybetme korkusu ya da \u00e7aresizlik nedeniyle dile getiremedi\u011fini ifade eden Dr. Demir, “Duyulmayan, g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen, ihmal edilen her ya\u015fl\u0131, toplumun i\u00e7inde giderek b\u00fcy\u00fcyen sessiz bir \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131kt\u0131r.” dedi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00dcsk\u00fcdar \u00dcniversitesi \u0130nsan ve Toplum Bilimleri Fak\u00fcltesi Dekan Yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 ve Psikoloji B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Zeynep G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f Demir, ya\u015fl\u0131 istismar\u0131 konusunu ele ald\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 istismar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca bedene y\u00f6nelen sald\u0131r\u0131 de\u011fildir<\/strong><\/p>\n

Toplumda ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylere y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet denildi\u011finde akla \u00e7o\u011funlukla fiziksel sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131n geldi\u011fini belirten Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Zeynep G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f Demir, ger\u00e7ekte istismar\u0131n \u00e7ok daha geni\u015f bir alan\u0131 kapsad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

“Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylere y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet denince \u00e7o\u011fumuzun akl\u0131na vurmak, itmek ya da darp etmek gibi fiziksel davran\u0131\u015flar gelir.” diyen Dr. Demir, s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:<\/p>\n

“Oysa ya\u015fl\u0131 istismar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca bedene y\u00f6nelen a\u00e7\u0131k bir sald\u0131r\u0131 olmayabilir. Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyi korkutan, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren, kararlar\u0131n\u0131 yok sayan, paras\u0131n\u0131 ya da mal\u0131n\u0131 izinsiz kullanan, bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 ihmal eden, onu yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa terk eden her davran\u0131\u015f ya\u015fl\u0131 istismar\u0131d\u0131r. Bir ya\u015fl\u0131ya ba\u011f\u0131rmak, onu s\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftirmek, hayat\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na itmek ve insan onurunu yaralayan her davran\u0131\u015f \u015fiddettir. Bir ya\u015fl\u0131ya ba\u011f\u0131rmak, onu s\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftirmek, hayat\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na itmek ve insan onurunu yaralayan her davran\u0131\u015f \u015fiddettir.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u015eiddetin en a\u011f\u0131r taraflar\u0131ndan biri sessizliktir<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00fcrkiye’de ya\u015fl\u0131lara y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin ger\u00e7ek boyutunun tam olarak bilinmedi\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eken Dr. Demir, “T\u00fcrkiye’de ya\u015fl\u0131lara y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin ger\u00e7ek boyutunu s\u00f6ylemek kolay de\u011fildir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu \u015fiddetin \u00f6nemli bir k\u0131sm\u0131 evlerin i\u00e7inde, kapal\u0131 kap\u0131lar\u0131n ard\u0131nda, aile mahremiyeti denilen kal\u0131n bir perdenin arkas\u0131nda ya da kurumlarda ya\u015fan\u0131r. Bir\u00e7ok ya\u015fl\u0131, maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 istismar\u0131 dile getirmeye \u00e7ekinir.” dedi.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerin \u00e7o\u011fu zaman istismarc\u0131n\u0131n kendi yak\u0131n\u0131 olmas\u0131 nedeniyle sessiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurgulayan Dr. Demir, “Kimi zaman istismar\u0131 yapan ki\u015fi kendi \u00e7ocu\u011fudur, e\u015fi, gelini, damad\u0131 ya da bak\u0131m verenidir. Ya\u015fl\u0131 birey ‘Evlad\u0131m zarar g\u00f6rmesin’, ‘Bana bakmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131rlar’, ‘Gidecek yerim yok’, ‘Kimse bana inanmaz’ diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek susabilir. Bazen de ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin \u015fiddet oldu\u011funu bile adland\u0131ramaz. \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden ya\u015fl\u0131 istismar\u0131n\u0131n en a\u011f\u0131r taraflar\u0131ndan biri sessizliktir. Maalesef bu sessizlik yaln\u0131zca bireyin de\u011fil, toplumun da \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00f6z yumdu\u011fu suskunlu\u011fudur.” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

Psikolojik ve ekonomik \u015fiddet \u00e7o\u011fu zaman fark edilmiyor<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fiziksel \u015fiddetin morluk, k\u0131r\u0131k ya da a\u00e7\u0131klanamayan yaralanmalar gibi belirtilerle daha kolay fark edildi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen Dr. Demir, “Morluklar, k\u0131r\u0131klar, d\u00fc\u015fme \u00f6yk\u00fcleri, a\u00e7\u0131klanamayan yaralanmalar dikkat \u00e7eker. Ancak psikolojik ve ekonomik \u015fiddet daha sinsi ilerler. S\u00fcrekli azarlanmak, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanmak, tehdit edilmek, konu\u015fulmamak, sosyal \u00e7evreden koparmak psikolojik \u015fiddettir. Ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n maa\u015f\u0131na el koymak, bankac\u0131l\u0131k i\u015flemlerini onun r\u0131zas\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yapmak, mal\u0131n\u0131 devretmeye zorlamak ya da paras\u0131n\u0131 kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 i\u00e7in kullanmak ise ekonomik istismard\u0131r. Ekonomik \u015fiddet yaln\u0131zca maddi kay\u0131p olu\u015fturmaz; ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, g\u00fcven duygusunu ve gelece\u011fe tutunma hissini de elinden al\u0131r.” dedi.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerde cinsel istismar g\u00f6rmezden gelinmemeli<\/strong><\/p>\n

Toplumda en fazla g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilen konulardan birinin ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerde cinsel istismar oldu\u011funu belirten Dr. Demir, “Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerde cinsel istismar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00f6rmezden gelinen, konu\u015fulmayan ve yokmu\u015f gibi davran\u0131lan a\u011f\u0131r bir \u015fiddet bi\u00e7imidir. Toplumda yayg\u0131n olan ‘Ya\u015fl\u0131 birey cinsel istismara u\u011framaz’ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yan\u0131lg\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00fcnya genelinde oranlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de cinsel istismar en az bildirilen \u015fiddet t\u00fcrlerinden biridir. \u00d6zellikle bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7, demansl\u0131, ileti\u015fim kurmakta zorlanan ya da bak\u0131m verene ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerde bu risk daha y\u00fcksektir. \u00d6rne\u011fin demansl\u0131 bireyler ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatmakta zorlanabilir, kendilerine inan\u0131lmayaca\u011f\u0131ndan korkabilir ya da neyin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu ay\u0131rt edemeyebilirler.\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u0130hmal ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n do\u011fal sonucu san\u0131lmamal\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 istismar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez hale getiren en \u00f6nemli nedenlerden birinin bir\u00e7ok belirtinin ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n do\u011fal s\u00fcreci olarak de\u011ferlendirilmesi oldu\u011funu belirten Dr. Demir, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n

“Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin uzun s\u00fcre kirli bir ortamda b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131, yeterince beslenmemesi, ila\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n verilmemesi ya da tedavi ettirilmemesi ihmal g\u00f6stergesidir. Bunlar ‘Ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131kta olur’ diye ge\u00e7i\u015ftirilemez. K\u00f6t\u00fc bak\u0131m ileri ya\u015fta do\u011frudan ya\u015fam\u0131 tehdit eden bir durum halini alabilir. Bir ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n yata\u011fa, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa, kirli \u00e7ar\u015faflara, a\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa ya da sessizli\u011fe terk edilmesi kabul edilemez. D\u00fc\u015fmeler, morluklar, kilo kayb\u0131, i\u00e7ine kapanma, unutkanl\u0131k, korku, huzursuzluk, bak\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k ya da tekrarlayan sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunlar\u0131 bazen yaln\u0131zca ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n do\u011fal sonucu gibi de\u011ferlendirilir. Oysa bu belirtilerin arkas\u0131nda ihmal, psikolojik bask\u0131, ekonomik istismar ya da bak\u0131m eksikli\u011fi olabilir. Ne yaz\u0131k ki bu yan\u0131lg\u0131ya zaman zaman sa\u011fl\u0131k profesyonelleri de d\u00fc\u015febilir. Belirtiler do\u011fru okunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, soru sorulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ve ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n sesi ger\u00e7ekten duyulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda m\u00fcdahale gecikir.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00d6z ihmale de dikkat \u00e7ekti<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin kendi temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layamamas\u0131n\u0131n ya da bunu reddetmesinin de \u00f6nemli bir risk olu\u015fturdu\u011funu ifade eden Dr. Demir, \u201c\u00dczerinde durulmas\u0131 gereken bir di\u011fer \u00f6nemli konu ise \u00f6z ihmaldir. Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin beslenme, temizlik, ila\u00e7 kullan\u0131m\u0131, sa\u011fl\u0131k kontrolleri, g\u00fcvenli ya\u015fam alan\u0131 ya da temel bak\u0131m ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kendi ba\u015f\u0131na s\u00fcrd\u00fcrememesi veya reddetmesi durumuna \u00f6z ihmal denir. \u00d6z ihmal bireyin \u2018kendi se\u00e7imi\u2019 denilerek g\u00f6rmezden gelinmemeli ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n neden bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcremedi\u011fi anla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131 ve destek mekanizmalar\u0131 h\u0131zla devreye sokulmal\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d ifadesinde bulundu. \u00a0<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7bir gerek\u00e7e \u015fiddeti hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaz<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bak\u0131m verenlerin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fckenmi\u015fli\u011fin de g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemesi gerekti\u011fini belirten Dr. Demir, “Aile i\u00e7inde bak\u0131m y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fcn tek ki\u015fiye kalmas\u0131, ekonomik sorunlar, aile i\u00e7i \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar, bak\u0131m verenin ruhsal olarak t\u00fckenmesi ve sosyal deste\u011fin yetersizli\u011fi ihmal ve istismara zemin haz\u0131rlayabilir. Ancak hi\u00e7bir gerek\u00e7e \u015fiddeti hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaz. Bak\u0131m vermek yorucu olabilir fakat yorgunluk; ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131n, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131laman\u0131n, ihmal etmenin ya da cezaland\u0131rman\u0131n bahanesi de\u011fildir. Bak\u0131m verenin de desteklenmesi gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc t\u00fckenmi\u015f bir bak\u0131m veren, fark\u0131nda olmadan hem kendisine hem de bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fiye zarar verebilir. Bu nedenle ya\u015fl\u0131 bak\u0131m\u0131 yaln\u0131zca ailenin omuzlar\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Aile desteklenmeli, bak\u0131m payla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131, gerekti\u011finde profesyonel yard\u0131m al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 dostu toplumlar olu\u015fturmal\u0131y\u0131z<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 ihmal ve istismar\u0131n\u0131n, toplumlar\u0131n geli\u015fmi\u015flik d\u00fczeyini g\u00f6steren \u00f6nemli g\u00f6stergelerden biri oldu\u011funu belirten Dr. Demir, \u201c\u0130hmal ve istismar toplumun geli\u015fmi\u015fli\u011fini, sa\u011fl\u0131k sisteminin duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve sosyal politikalar\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6steren \u00f6nemli bir aynad\u0131r. Toplumun, ailelerin, bak\u0131m verenlerin ve ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerin ihmal ve istismar konusunda bilin\u00e7lendirilmesi gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ya\u015fl\u0131 birey maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n istismar oldu\u011funu fark edemedi\u011fi gibi aileler de baz\u0131 tutumlar\u0131n \u015fiddet say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etmeyebilir. Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerin b\u00f6yle bir durumda nereye ba\u015fvuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve nas\u0131l destek alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmesi \u00f6nemlidir. Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n g\u00fcvenli ve sayg\u0131n bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrebilmesi i\u00e7in ya\u015fl\u0131 dostu toplumlar yarat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00a0Duyulmayan, g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen, ihmal edilen her ya\u015fl\u0131, toplumun i\u00e7inde giderek b\u00fcy\u00fcyen sessiz bir \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131kt\u0131r.\u201d \u015feklinde s\u00f6zlerini tamamlad\u0131.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Kaynak: (BYZHA) Beyaz Haber Ajans\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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